With: Elia Winters

As a busy person, I have learned to prioritize
self-care. Keeping my emotional well full, instead of depleted, gives me the
resources to work when it’s time to work and play when it’s time to play. You
can’t pour from an empty cup, and even the tasks I enjoy take time and energy.
Here’s how I take care of myself in the middle of my busy schedule.
Baths
I take baths almost every day during the
winter, and throughout most of the fall and spring as well. Lush should name a
bath bomb after me, since I buy enough of them. Here’s my preferred bath setup:
very, very hot water; a dark bathroom, lit only by a jar candle or two; a glass
of ice wine; a face mask, maybe by Toly Moly or Skin Food; and a bath bomb. My
favorite bath bombs are actually from a tiny shop called Zeb’s in New
Hampshire, but I am partial to Lush, and I’ve also bought bulk bath bombs from
Amazon as well as made my own. Sitting in the dark, with lush scents
surrounding me, I don’t have anything to do but relax.
Baking
When I began watching The Great British Baking Show last year, I got the urge to start
baking again. I used to bake all the time, but slowly drifted away from it.
Pulling out the stand mixer again reminded me that baking isn’t just a fun
hobby: for me, it’s also self-care. I like the meditative action of kneading
bread, the specificity of exact measurements, the satisfaction of creating
something delicious from raw ingredients. I recently started making croissants,
and the precision required for a full puff pastry has inspired me to make even
more complicated baked goods in the future. Plus, I get to eat them afterward.
Binge-Watching
It’s the era of Netflix, and while I don’t
watch a lot of TV, I like the mindless relaxation of binge-watching a show. I
don’t want to add anxiety to my life, so I avoid intense shows -- except Game of Thrones, since I’ve been
committed to that for years. Instead, I binge lighter fare: the aforementioned Great British Baking Show, Tidying Up with Marie Kondo, and Queer Eye are frequently on in this
house, even when we’ve finished a series and started circling back. I’ve also
been ravenously devouring Schitt’s Creek,
which has some of the best writing on television. In a pinch, though, I’ll
return to an old classic like The Office or
That 70s Show. It’s comfort media,
and I’m all here for comfort media.
We’re all busy. In our go-go-go world, making
time to fill your soul is not a luxury; it’s a necessity. I love being busy,
and I love taking time to relax with simple indulgences.

Nothing is forbidden…
Abby Burke put her wild days behind her, determined to be the adult she thought she needed to be. It was just a phase, right? But when her college reunion reveals her…adventurous…past to her straitlaced gentleman of a husband, Abby is terrified he’ll reject her.
But Sam is more than intrigued by what has his normally bold wife flushing with embarrassment…and desire. So when he and Abby stumble onto an especially hot scene that takes them over the edge, he proposes a challenge: confess their deepest fantasies and fulfill them together.
As their playful explorations escalate, their forays into exhibitionism and kink shift the way they see each other and their relationship—for the better. But when Sam finds himself longing to see her pleasured by other men, and Abby’s all in, they wonder if this will make their marriage stronger or end up tearing them apart.
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